Periagoge
Scenario

When friendship feels transactional rather than genuine

I realized I only hear from certain friends when they need something and I feel used but also wonder if that's just how adult friendship works now.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The erosion of friendship into functional exchange reflects broader cultural confusion about the nature of non-utilitarian love.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Deep friendship — what it takes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.