I spent my entire childhood being told I wasn't good enough and now I watch myself say the same things to my eight-year-old daughter and I hate myself but I don't know how to stop.
More people experience this than they realize.
You are unconsciously perpetuating the very wounds that shaped you, unable to access a different way of loving.
“Where Are You with Tiger parenting — East Asian model examined?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.