Periagoge
Scenario

Why cutting off enablement feels like cruelty

I stopped giving money to my homeless brother after he spent my last loan on drugs and now I drive past him on the street corner and feel sick with guilt every time.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Refusing to fund destructive behavior creates the agonizing experience of watching someone suffer consequences while having the power to temporarily relieve them.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punishment consequences and natural boundaries?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.