I stopped giving money to my homeless brother after he spent my last loan on drugs and now I drive past him on the street corner and feel sick with guilt every time.
More people experience this than they realize.
Refusing to fund destructive behavior creates the agonizing experience of watching someone suffer consequences while having the power to temporarily relieve them.
“Where Are You with Punishment consequences and natural boundaries?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.