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Scenario

When your teen breaks rules but stays safe

I told my 16-year-old she could not go to a party and she snuck out anyway and came home drunk and I do not know if I should punish her or be grateful she came home safe.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent faces the impossible balance between enforcing boundaries and acknowledging that their child made relatively responsible choices within their rebellion.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Adolescence and the parent-teen relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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