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When your parenting values clash with your child's social reality

I told my daughter she could date when she turns sixteen but all her friends are dating now at fourteen and she cries every night saying I am ruining her social life and maybe I am being too strict.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Standing firm on principles becomes complicated when your child's belonging depends on your flexibility.

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“Where Are You with Cultural expectations vs. personal values in parenting?”

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