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How consequences get blamed on the enforcer

I took away my son's car keys after his second speeding ticket and he missed a job interview and now blames me for not getting hired instead of owning his reckless driving.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Natural results of poor choices are often redirected as anger toward those who implement reasonable restrictions rather than acceptance of personal responsibility.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punishment consequences and natural boundaries?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.