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Scenario

How consequences get blamed on the enforcer

I took away my son's car keys after his second speeding ticket and he missed a job interview and now blames me for not getting hired instead of owning his reckless driving.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Natural results of poor choices are often redirected as anger toward those who implement reasonable restrictions rather than acceptance of personal responsibility.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punishment consequences and natural boundaries?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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