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Scenario

Why posthumous giving can feel like emotional manipulation

I want to leave my house to charity when I die but my adult children think I'm doing it to punish them for not visiting enough

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The decision to bypass family in favor of charity carries messages about worth and disappointment that complicate genuine altruism.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Legacy and ego — when legacy-building becomes narcissism?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.