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When your parenting goals conflict with your child's temperament

I want to raise my daughter to be strong and independent, but she's naturally shy and sensitive and I worry that pushing her to be more assertive is trying to change who she fundamentally is.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The desire to prepare children for the world can clash with acceptance of their inherent nature.

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