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Scenario

How to parent confidently when you fear repeating your own trauma

I was raised by a narcissistic mother and I'm so afraid of being like her that I second-guess every parenting decision and my 10-year-old has started acting like the parent in our relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent's hypervigilance about avoiding harmful patterns has created such self-doubt that their child feels compelled to take on adult responsibilities.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trauma-informed parenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.