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Scenario

When trauma-informed stability becomes rigidity that stifles development

I was raised in a chaotic household and I've created such rigid structure for my kids that my 12-year-old son asks permission to use the bathroom and I realize I've gone too far the other direction.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent's well-intentioned creation of predictability has become excessive control that inhibits their child's sense of agency and spontaneity.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trauma-informed parenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.