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Scenario

When trauma makes it hard to receive affection from your own child

I was sexually abused and my 5-year-old daughter is so physically affectionate but sometimes her hugs feel overwhelming and I pull away and I can see it hurts her feelings.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent's body holds trauma responses that interfere with natural physical bonding, creating distance despite deep love for their child.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trauma-informed parenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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