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Scenario

When others want to rank your identities

I'm gay and Indian and my therapist keeps wanting to talk about which identity is harder and I wish I could make her understand they're not separate problems.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The demand to prioritize aspects of selfhood reveals how poorly others understand the integrated nature of lived experience.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The hyphenated identity and belonging?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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