I've been giving my homeless brother money for years telling myself it's compassionate, but I found out he's using it for drugs and now I don't know if stopping the money is tough love or abandonment.
More people experience this than they realize.
The discovery that assistance is being used harmfully creates a painful choice between continued enabling and what feels like withdrawal of love.
“Where Are You with Buddhist merit and the ripple of good action?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.