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Why do I still feel excluded after years in cohousing

I've been living in this cohousing community for three years and I still feel like an outsider at every common meal and group meeting and I don't know if it's them or me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The promise of instant belonging through intentional community often collides with the slower reality of earning your place in any human group.

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