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Scenario

When shame prevents honesty with your closest friend

I've been lying to my best friend about how bad my drinking has gotten and every conversation feels fake now but I'm terrified she'll leave if she knows the truth.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of losing love can paradoxically destroy the very intimacy that makes friendship meaningful.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Deep friendship — what it takes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.