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How to ask for support when your crisis doesn't fit the template

I've been organizing meal trains for new parents in our area for three years but when I had my miscarriage no one knew how to show up for that kind of loss.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Established patterns of care can leave unconventional grief without container or witness.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Mutual aid networks across traditions?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.