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Scenario

Why secret help sometimes fails

I've been secretly paying for my elderly father's medication because he's too proud to ask for help, but his doctor says he's not taking it regularly and I realize my stealth generosity isn't actually solving anything.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Providing assistance without the recipient's knowledge or participation can miss the real barriers to accepting care.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist merit and the ripple of good action?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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