I've been secretly paying for my elderly father's medication because he's too proud to ask for help, but his doctor says he's not taking it regularly and I realize my stealth generosity isn't actually solving anything.
More people experience this than they realize.
Providing assistance without the recipient's knowledge or participation can miss the real barriers to accepting care.
“Where Are You with Buddhist merit and the ripple of good action?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.