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How parental protection can interfere with natural consequences

My 18-year-old son was arrested for selling drugs and I bailed him out and hired a lawyer because I don't want his life ruined, but my husband says I'm making it worse.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The impulse to shield our children from the results of their actions can prevent the learning that only comes through experiencing reality.

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