My 25-year-old daughter is struggling with addiction and every time I try to help her I feel like I'm enabling her but when I step back I feel like I'm abandoning her.
More people experience this than they realize.
The impulse to rescue conflicts with the recognition that true help might require allowing natural consequences.
“Where Are You with Intergenerational conversation — talking to descendants?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.