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Scenario

How to Love an Adult Child with Addiction Without Enabling

My 25-year-old daughter is struggling with addiction and every time I try to help her I feel like I'm enabling her but when I step back I feel like I'm abandoning her.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The impulse to rescue conflicts with the recognition that true help might require allowing natural consequences.

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Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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Peri

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