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Scenario

When your child expresses racial self-rejection

My 9-year-old son told me he wishes he wasn't brown because all his friends are white and he wants to look like them.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent faces their child's internalized racism and must navigate building identity pride while acknowledging real social pressures.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Middle childhood 7-12 — school peers identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.