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When your child expresses racial self-rejection

My 9-year-old son told me he wishes he wasn't brown because all his friends are white and he wants to look like them.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent faces their child's internalized racism and must navigate building identity pride while acknowledging real social pressures.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Middle childhood 7-12 — school peers identity?”

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