My ADHD partner hyperfocuses on their video games and ignores me for hours and when I try to talk about it they say I'm attacking their neurodivergence and I don't know what's fair anymore.
More people experience this than they realize.
The legitimate need for accommodations can be confused with avoidance of relationship responsibilities, making it difficult to distinguish between neurological difference and behavioral choice.
“Where Are You with Belonging for neurodivergent people?”
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