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When Your Adopted Child Reconnects with Birth Parents

My adopted son found his birth mother on social media three months ago and now he barely speaks to us and spends every weekend at her house and I feel like I am losing the child I raised for sixteen years.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fundamental terror that love given freely might be withdrawn just as easily.

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