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When adult children fulfill obligations without warmth

My adult children live across the country and call dutifully once a week but I can feel the distance in every conversation and wonder if I failed them somehow.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Duty fulfilled without love can feel more isolating than abandonment.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian filial piety — examined?”

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