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Scenario

Why your adult children only contact you when they need help

My adult children only call when they need something and I feel like an ATM with feelings who gets turned on when convenient.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The relationship has calcified into a transaction where love is measured in utility rather than presence.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Adult relationships with adult children?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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