Periagoge
Scenario

When you realize you've become a resource not a relationship

My adult children only contact me when they need something and I realize I have trained them to see me as a resource rather than a person they want to know.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The sobering recognition that patterns of giving without reciprocity have fundamentally shaped how your children relate to you.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Launching adult children?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.