My adult children rarely call or visit but still expect me to babysit their kids whenever they need it and I feel used rather than honored.
More people experience this than they realize.
The reciprocal nature of intergenerational care has become extractive rather than mutual.
“Where Are You with African ubuntu and intergenerational responsibility?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.