Periagoge
Scenario

When your adult child moves home and you're torn between helping and enabling

My adult son moved back home after college and I love having him here but I also feel like I'm enabling him and don't know when to push.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The blurred boundary between support and enablement reflects the ongoing challenge of loving without controlling.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The parent's inner life — what children bring up?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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