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When compassion becomes enablement in disguise

My adult son moved back home after losing his job six months ago and still has not looked for work and my wife says I am too hard on him but I see him playing video games all day.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Extended support during difficult times can unconsciously transform from temporary help into permanent avoidance of adult responsibilities.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punishment consequences and natural boundaries?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.