Periagoge
Scenario

When supportive friendship becomes enablement

My best friend keeps making the same destructive relationship choices and asking for my advice, but she never takes it and I'm starting to think my patient listening is just enabling her drama addiction.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Repeatedly offering emotional support without seeing change can reveal the difference between helpful presence and participation in destructive patterns.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist merit and the ripple of good action?”

Peri

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