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Scenario

When friends disguise criticism as concern

My best friend makes subtle comments about my weight whenever we eat together and I don't know if she's trying to help or if this is something darker.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The line between loving honesty and disguised aggression can be difficult to discern when it comes wrapped in concern.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Deep friendship — what it takes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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