My brother and I both married people who remind us of our abusive mother and we joke about it but neither of us knows how to be attracted to someone healthy
More people experience this than they realize.
You're seeing how childhood trauma shaped your fundamental attractions and wondering if you're capable of choosing partners who are good for you.
“Where Are You with Intergenerational trauma — the legacy you break?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.