Periagoge
Scenario

When others celebrate a family loss you privately regret

My brother died in Afghanistan and people keep thanking me for his sacrifice but I wish he had never gone and I do not know how to honor his memory honestly.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Public narratives about sacrifice can make private grief feel illegitimate or unpatriotic.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Political and civic legacy?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.