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Scenario

How financial boundaries get reframed as abandonment

My college daughter maxed out the credit card I gave her for emergencies on clothes and concerts and when I canceled it she said I broke my promise to always support her.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Reasonable limits on financial support are often interpreted by recipients as fundamental rejection rather than appropriate consequence for misuse.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punishment consequences and natural boundaries?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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