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Scenario

When your child reflects back everything you hate about yourself

My daughter is exactly like I was at her age and I realize I have passed down all my worst traits and I do not know how to forgive myself.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Seeing your own negative patterns repeated in your child can trigger profound guilt about the parts of identity you have transmitted rather than transcended.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parenting and identity — who are you beyond parent??”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.