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When grandparents must protect grandchildren from unstable parents

My daughter shows up drunk wanting to see her kids and they get so excited and then so disappointed when I have to turn her away and I feel like the villain.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Being the barrier between children and their harmful parent creates a painful role that feels both necessary and destructive.

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