My daughter stopped playing violin after getting into college and when I asked why she said she wanted to find out if she actually liked music or if she just liked making me happy.
More people experience this than they realize.
The boundaries between your ambitions and your child's have become so blurred that they cannot access their own authentic preferences.
“Where Are You with Tiger parenting — East Asian model examined?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.