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When your child admits to people-pleasing behaviors

My daughter told me she pretends to like things she doesn't and acts differently around different groups of friends to fit in.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent recognizes their child is learning to fragment themselves to gain acceptance and worries about the cost of this adaptation.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Middle childhood 7-12 — school peers identity?”

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