My daughter wants me to leave my house to her children instead of her because she owes back taxes and I feel like I am being asked to participate in her financial irresponsibility.
More people experience this than they realize.
The request to engineer inheritance around someone's poor choices forces parents to become complicit in their child's relationship with consequence.
“Where Are You with Wills trusts and inheritance structures?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.