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Scenario

How to navigate gender identity questions in young children

My eight-year-old daughter insists she's a boy and wants to cut her hair and wear boy clothes, and I want to be supportive but my husband thinks we're encouraging a phase that will confuse her more.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Parents must balance affirmation of a child's self-expression with uncertainty about long-term implications.

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