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When family values clash across generations

My elderly father keeps making racist comments in front of my mixed-race children and I feel torn between protecting my kids and honoring my father.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love becomes complex when those we honor hold views that harm those we protect.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Belonging vs. fitting in — the distinction that matters?”

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