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When co-parenting becomes a competition for your children's loyalty

My ex-husband tells our kids completely different rules about everything and they play us against each other and I feel like I am losing them.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Divorced parents inadvertently weaponize inconsistency, forcing children to navigate conflicting value systems.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parenting as legacy — what you pass through children?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.