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Scenario

How to maintain boundaries when your abusive ex uses permissive parenting against you

My ex-husband was abusive and now my 6-year-old daughter says she wants to live with daddy because he lets her do whatever she wants and I'm the mean one with rules.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A protective parent struggles with being seen as the restrictive one while their abusive co-parent uses freedom as manipulation.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trauma-informed parenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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