Periagoge
Scenario

When you become the default keeper of family traditions

My extended family expects me to host every holiday because I have the biggest house but I am exhausted from always being responsible for keeping everyone connected.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The burden of maintaining community bonds falls disproportionately on those with resources, creating resentment within the very connections being preserved.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African communal parenting traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.