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Scenario

When You Cannot Forgive What Was Done to Someone Else

My father cheated on my mother throughout their marriage and she stayed and forgave him but I cannot forgive him for what he put her through and it is affecting our relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Witnessing harm to a loved one can create wounds that the victim has chosen to heal but the witness still carries.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiving parents?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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