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Scenario

When Your Parent's Bigotry Forces Impossible Choices

My father is racist and homophobic and I love him but I cannot bring my Black girlfriend around him and I hate having to choose between the people I love.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love does not excuse harm, and protecting others from prejudice sometimes requires accepting painful distance from family.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiving parents?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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