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How to show love to a trauma survivor who cannot accept physical affection

My fourteen-year-old was sexually assaulted and now flinches when I try to hug her and I do not know how to love someone who cannot bear to be touched.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Trauma can make the most basic expressions of parental love feel like additional violations to a wounded child.

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