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When friendship feels one-sided and you've contributed to the imbalance

My friend always dominates conversations and never asks about my life and I've enabled this for years by being a good listener but I'm starting to feel invisible.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Our own patterns of self-effacement can create the very dynamics we later resent in relationships.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Deep friendship — what it takes?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.