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When you want to reconnect but fear your friend has moved on

My friend and I have been drifting apart for over a year and I keep thinking I should reach out but then I worry that if she wanted to talk to me she would have already and I am trapped in this cycle of doubt.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your assumption that silence equals rejection is preventing you from testing whether connection is still possible.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Maintaining friendships across distance and time?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.