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Scenario

When people idealize your parenting situation

My friends keep telling me I am so strong for handling everything with my disabled son but I do not feel strong and I wish someone would just ask how I am really doing.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The transformation into an inspirational figure prevents authentic connection and support while creating pressure to perform strength rather than receive help.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parenting a child with disability or neurodivergence?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.