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When teenage grandchildren want to return to unfit parents

My granddaughter is thirteen and wants to live with her mother who is unstable but claims she has changed and I am afraid saying no will push her away forever.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Adolescent autonomy conflicts with protective judgment, forcing choices between relationship preservation and safety concerns.

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“Where Are You with Grandparents raising grandchildren?”

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